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Linda Slow Growing in Scotland's avatar

This was shocking. Jean Cooke's art is beautiful. I also clicked through to the Guardian article and was shocked again that his second relationship "muse" stayed with him. I'm coming to distrust men who have a muse. It usually involves control. My ex brother in law insisted that his new wife didn't work once they were married. This was the mid 1980s for heaven's sake! She was a highly trained nursing sister. He was in the merchant navy and away for weeks at a time. I remember going to visit her for the first time with my new husband, her brother. She was sitting in this pin-neat modern house, with a neat garden, just whiling away time. I just couldn't get my head around it. I have to admit I disliked the brother in law intensely and viscerally the first time I met him, and he also felt the same about me because I must have been giving off strong vibes of "I wouldn't stand for this shit". Thankfully they are now divorced, at her instigation, but what a waste of a life.

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The Bird Soup Diaries's avatar

Oh my, how sad for her, but what a remarkable artist she was! This is a lovely post. To follow up, I just read the Painters of Today book about John (available on the Internet Archive), which was published in 1961. This provides a descriptive biography of sorts about him, his art and his writing (followed by a number of his pictures), and I kept reading looking for the author to mention Jean Cooke and her art (which in my opinion is much better than his!), but there was no mention of her by name (that I could see), other than being called ‘the wife’ on p.20… I’m glad that she is getting the recognition she deserves now.

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